“Networking” gets a bad reputation because people picture forced small talk, awkward pitches, and swapping business cards like it’s a chore.
At Ansir, it can be the opposite: quick, normal conversations that turn into real relationships over time—especially because you’ll see people again. Here are 10 easy ways to start conversations that don’t feel salesy, strange, or performative.
Quick mindset shift: you’re not “networking,” you’re being friendly
The simplest way to make it not weird: don’t aim for a big outcome. Aim for a pleasant 30–60 seconds. If it goes longer, great. If not, you still built familiarity.
10 easy conversation starters (that don’t feel like a script)
1) “Hey—are you a regular here or visiting today?”
This is a natural coworking opener. It gives the other person an easy, low-stakes answer.
2) “What are you working on this week?”
People love talking about their projects—especially in coworking. It’s relevant and friendly.
3) “That setup is awesome—what’s the [keyboard/monitor/app]?”
Compliment + curiosity works. Keep it genuine and specific.
4) “Have you been to any Ansir events you liked?”
This is perfect if you’re new (or even if you’re not). It leads to recommendations and shared context.
5) “I’m trying to build a better routine—what days do you usually come in?”
This makes the conversation about habits and consistency—very coworking-friendly.
6) “I’ve been meaning to explore more of the neighborhood—any lunch/coffee spots you recommend?”
Local recommendations are easy and personal without being intrusive.
7) “What brought you to coworking in the first place?”
This tends to create real answers (focus, community, structure), which makes the conversation feel meaningful.
8) “I’m doing a ‘2 intros a week’ goal—mind if I introduce myself?”
It’s honest, light, and disarming. Most people respond warmly.
9) “I like your focus—what helps you stay locked in here?”
Great for people who look busy. You’re complimenting them and asking a practical question.
10) “I’m [your name]—good to meet you.” (Yes, that’s enough.)
You don’t need a clever line. A simple intro + smile is often the best option.
How to end the conversation gracefully (so it stays comfortable)
Awkwardness usually happens at the exit. Here are easy, normal endings:
- “Nice meeting you—hope you have a productive day.”
- “I’m going to jump back into a task, but great chatting.”
- “If I see you around again, I’ll say hi.”
The simplest follow-up that actually works
If the conversation was good, don’t overthink it. Try one of these:
- “Want to grab a coffee here sometime this week?”
- “If you’re ever up for a quick lunch, let me know.”
- “What’s the best way to stay in touch—LinkedIn?”
For introverts: a low-pressure networking plan
If you’re not naturally extroverted, do this instead of “trying to network”:
- Say hi to one person when you arrive
- Ask one simple question (from the list above)
- Leave after 60 seconds if you want
Do that twice a week for a month and you’ll be amazed how much more “connected” you feel.
Try this at Ansir this week
Pick one line from the list and use it once. That’s the whole goal. Consistency beats intensity here—just like everything else.
If you’re new and want help meeting people, ask a staff member what events or introductions make the most sense for what you’re working on. That’s what community is for.
